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Updated: 7:44 PM Oct 24, 2011
Supporting PFLAG
A local mother is speaking out about how she was inspired to get involved in a national organization after her teenage son told her he's gay.
Posted: 6:27 PM Oct 24, 2011
Reporter: Channing Frampton
Email Address: channing@tv3winchester.com
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A local mother is speaking out about how she was inspired to get involved in a national organization after her teenage son told her he's gay.



PFLAG provides support for parents, families, and friends of gays and lesbians.The local LGTB community is opening up and working to support teens and their families that may have no where else to turn.



Jennifer Ward, president of PFLAG Winchester said through tear-filled eyes, "Stand by your child. I mean, he's got a friend, and I can't give names, but he's got a friend that's a lesbian, and her mother doesn't support her."

 

At 14-years-old Ward's son came out as a gay teen, which inspired her to get involved with a little-known group in Winchester called PFLAG.



She added, "I don't think the name does it justice now, because we're trying to reach everyone. We're trying to not just families of lesbians and gays but lesbians and gays. We're opening up to teenagers...All ages."

 

The group of about 30 meets outside of Stephens City and provides support for people like Ward's son, Dutch Montley.



Montley added, "It's nice to have someone out there that you can relate to and know that knows what you're going through."



While the need for support in high school and at home might be true, students at Shenandoah University say there's plenty of support for the LGBT community.



Student, Emily Ehrgott, explained, "I do think that there's a lot of support here at Shenandoah. Even in our spiritual life department, there's a lot of support, which isn't common in a lot of spiritual life aspects."

 

Though support may be strong at some institutions, at least one PFLAG member says it all starts at home.



Ward continued, "You may not agree with it. You may not like it, and I'll say it's a slap in the face when you find out, but you've got to support them."

 

Support is what Ward and her counterparts at PFLAG are all about.



The group meets  the third Sunday of every month. For more on meetings click here.


Latest Comments

Posted by: Jennifer Ward on Nov 16, 2011 at 11:38 AM

Greg, Thank you so much for your support and willingness to say it publicly. It truly makes a difference to my son, in this new time in his life, to feel the support of so many others. Again, Thank you!
Posted by: Greg Location: Winchester on Nov 11, 2011 at 09:46 PM

This is a reply to Betty and all those that quote the bible and "the abomination". If you continue to read on it says "eating shell fish is a sin". So if you have ever ate shrimp well I guess your going to hell. Being gay is not a choice. If you say hate brussel sprouts, well you can pray(I pray) but that will not change the facts or your likes or dislikes. May God Bless you Jennifer and your son. I support you and the Love of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Posted by: Christina on Nov 4, 2011 at 03:14 PM

I happen to stumble across the site and hope you can help me out. I am a very supportive mother of a gay 13 year old girl. Lately my daughter has been asking for relationship advice that I don't know the answer too. Also I have mentioned PFLAG before and she has been afraid that someone will see her and it will get out at school and although she is out with her close friends and family she says she is not ready to be out for world to know. Maybe we can meet sometime to talk and she could meet your son.
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